Compromises

Sometimes when you want something really bad, you can't have it without losing something else, you need and do not want to lose.
Then you have to decide. Unfortunately only for one thing. You want to keep the old, or you take the risk of the unrevealed path and go for the new.

Thanks god life isn't only black and white. There are many shadows of grey as well. All you have to do is a little adjusting of the plans...
It is called doing compromises. What I call it is shifting the reality...Well at least your thinking. You have to persuade yourself that it is better to have half of each thing than only one of them, but for 100%.

From this point, it is really easy. You just keep on adjusting and compromising all the time. Life isn't always black or white, there are shadows as well. You may realize, that you have adjusted and compromised too much and the grey shade doesn't suit you at all.